Maybe I lack fulfilment, but I travel to be the best possible version of myself.

Posted by on Apr 1, 2016 in Inspiration | 37 Comments

This is a response to the article posted on Thought Catalog ‘Why Your Obsession With Travel Means That You’re Living A Mediocre Life.’yoga forest 7

That bitter article that’s been doing the rounds on Facebook this week claiming that ‘you travel because you’re living a mediocre life’ has left me, along with many others, feeling anger and contempt. It’s never nice when someone disrespects your lifestyle and talks down your passion in such a condescending way.

I felt pretty miffed about it, but then had a thought which annoyed me even more – is it true? Am I unfulfilled? Is that why I can never properly settle anywhere, why after a few weeks or months, places bore me? Am I actually wasting my life?

Of course travelling permanently isn’t as helpful to the world as being a doctor or lawyer is. I have every respect for people doing those jobs, and all the others that require huge levels of academia. I couldn’t do it – I don’t have that kind of aptitude.

But I do have some kind of aptitude. While I’m not a genius, I’m hugely interested in politics, history, geography and sociology. I can read a book in hours when I want to, and I read on all sorts of subjects. And I obviously write loads.

So why don’t I just find a job in one of those fields, and stick to that and ‘make things by standing still’, as that article so pompously said?

Well the way I see it, everyone has their passion. Some people love to sing, some get great pleasure in playing football. Broadly, I’d say mine is travelling, but it’s more than that. I dream of going to foreign lands and interacting with as many people as possible. I want to learn things from them that I’ll never understand from the UK. I want to live a completely different way of life, to understand both what’s inside me and the larger world.

That’s it. I’m obsessed with the world.

If you travel right, you can acquire so many skills that you simply couldn’t in the same time frame at home. Take my seven week trip to Guatemala, for instance. In that time, I got my Spanish from beginner level to a conversational standard, I spent four days at a yoga retreat, which taught me heaps about yoga and the nature of Buddhism, I found out countless things about Guatemalan life from my homestay and volunteering project and I even learnt some extremely valuable lessons about how much we have to be thankful for. And that’s not even touching on all the little facts and nuggets of information I absorbed by talking to people of different nationalities; and all the things I learnt about myself when I was put into non-ideal situations. Standing up for four hours on a packed out chicken bus, or being completely alone in a hostel with dire food poisoning and not enough drinking water are testing situations, but they certainly build character!

 

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Of course, there are people who see travelling as one big party. This as a permanent lifestyle would obviously be unfulfilling but as long as they are respectful to the countries that they are in (I know that a lot of people are not, but that’s a subject for another day), there’s nothing wrong with that for a while, but living this way for any longer than a while obviously isn’t sustainable. Generally, a job would be too hard to keep up or you’d fall ill after doing this for too long. This kind of travel would be unfulfilling in the long run, but it’s not a ‘long run’ type of travel anyway.

But this guy wasn’t criticizing travellers who are on a constant pub crawl. He was criticising all of us. And frankly, there’s no way that travelling to learn about other cultures, develop new skills or see life from a different angle is unfulfilling in itself. But maybe we, as travellers, lack fulfilment. But is that so bad? The world is a huge place. There’s so many beautiful places to see; I’m adamant that every country in the world has beauty, and there’s no way that I’m ever going to be completely satisfied with my ever increasing places to visit list, and constantly expanding number of things to see and experience in these places.

I travel because it makes me happy. I’m happy to be unfulfilled, and I’m happy to use travel to keep working on myself to be the absolute best I can be. I want to be able to speak more languages, I want to run marathons on other continents, I want to learn how to cook food from different countries. I want to have friends across the globe, who aren’t necessarily fluent in English. These activities in themselves are about as fulfilling as you could get. But yes, maybe I do lack fulfilment, because I’ll never be able to speak enough languages, know enough meals or have enough friends. But that’s fine with me.

There’s a quote that I love; “choose a job you love, and you’ll never have to work a day in your life”. Gallivanting around the globe just so happens to be my passion, and once I set off on my long travelling trip in July, I’ll be trying my hardest to make money out of it – knowing that it won’t be easy! But I also know if you want something really bad, and are prepared to work incredibly hard for it, then it’s possible. And the same goes for any career path, whether it be medicine, law, teaching or business. If it’s your passion, and it makes you happy, then go and do it. Everyone’s passions are unique to them. Rather than criticize people who have found theirs, as this guy did, let’s celebrate working towards our dreams and becoming the best version of ourselves, whatever they and it may be.

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37 Comments

  1. Tara
    April 6, 2016

    You said it right – You travel because it makes you happy. Other people work long hours, knit scarves, or homestead the land because it makes them happy. Some people are unfulfilled, but I’m not sure traveling would change anything for them either. As a culture we seem to be really good at criticizing others, especially when we’re hiding behind our computer screens. Glad you are doing what you love!

  2. Girlswanderlust
    April 7, 2016

    Nice post Claire! I love to read about your reason of travelling. You are right, it is not only about being fulfilled, but also about doing it because you are curious about new things and love to travel.

  3. Claire
    April 7, 2016

    Yes definitely, I see it as a form of self progression! Glad you like the post 🙂

  4. Claire
    April 7, 2016

    Exactly, we should all be doing what makes us happy 🙂 Thanks for the comment!

  5. Tom
    April 8, 2016

    If you are happy travelling that’s all that matters. It’s your life and you can live it however you see fit! That’s how I live my life. Society seems to dictate that everyone must slave away in an office for 50 years of their life, so they can ‘enjoy’ retirement! This is not for me, and obviously not for you. If it makes you happy keep doing it and ignore the naysayers!! Happy travels!!

  6. Claire
    April 8, 2016

    Exactly! We should all be doing what makes us happy. No point in slaving away in an office all our lives if it’s not what we want to do! Equally, if it is what people want to do then that’s great for them 🙂 thanks, happy travels to you too!

  7. Samantha
    April 8, 2016

    When I saw that article he posted on TG, I didn’t even click the link to read it. The title infuriated me. It makes me angry when people criticize other people’s lifestyles. Live your life the way YOU want it, without any regrets! I totally appreciated your post and your awesome words of wisdom. Glad you rebutted it on TG 😀 You go girl!

  8. Claire
    April 8, 2016

    Haha yes, same here, it really irked me! Thanks very much Samantha, I’m glad you like it 🙂

  9. Bernard
    April 8, 2016

    I totally agree with you, travelling brings out another side of you! What’s most important is that you are happy when travelling.
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  10. Patricia - Ze Wandering Frogs
    April 8, 2016

    Nice article. I travel because I like it. I travel because I am curious. I travel to explore new cultures and ways of life. I learn from others. Nobody should judge my life. Everyone should respect each other – that’s the basis of living together.
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  11. Kerri
    April 9, 2016

    I guess we are all entitled to our (different) opinions but I am one that fully supports travel giving me so much that I may not have had otherwise, It has enriched my life, given me experiences and opportunities I never dreamt of, allowed me to learn, be more mindful, more tolerant, and to be able to share what I’ve learned as well.
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  12. Tarah Vongbouthdy
    April 9, 2016

    Agreed! There is so much to learn by visiting other countries! Now is the time to take the chance to explore the world around us!

  13. kayla
    April 9, 2016

    This is absolutely lovely. And I totally agree. Travel makes me a better person. A more fulfilled person!

  14. Alexa
    April 9, 2016

    Fun article! I’m on board. Slightly obsessed about seeing the world!

  15. Elizabeth @ Compass & Fork
    April 10, 2016

    Thankfully we don’t all do and like the same things or the world would be a really boring place! And luckily we are all entitle to our own opinions- if you don’t like travel don’t do it! To each his own.
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  16. Annemarie
    April 10, 2016

    Ah, that article upset me as well. So bitter and onesided, lives up to be exactly what he despised in the world. Anyway, love that you addressed that and wrote such an inspiring article.

  17. Claire
    April 10, 2016

    Thanks for the comment Bernard – travelling definitely helps to bring out my best side 🙂

  18. Claire
    April 10, 2016

    Yes definitely – that’s how I feel too. We all travel for different reasons and they’re all what makes us happy!

  19. Claire
    April 10, 2016

    Yes we’re definitely entitled to our own opinions – it was mainly the condescending tone of this guy telling others how to live their life that I didn’t like! Completely agree with you Kerri. Travel has changed my life in unimaginable ways!

  20. Claire
    April 10, 2016

    Sure is!

  21. Claire
    April 10, 2016

    And me, Kayla 🙂

  22. Claire
    April 10, 2016

    Hehe, same here Alexa!

  23. Claire
    April 10, 2016

    That’s a very good point Elizabeth – we can’t all like the same things! Yep definitely 🙂

  24. Claire
    April 10, 2016

    Me too, it was so judgemental! Thanks for your comment Annemarie 🙂

  25. Dani
    April 10, 2016

    Great inspirational article, thanks for sharing this personal insight claire.

    take care – Dani

  26. Claire
    April 10, 2016

    Thanks Dani, I’m glad you enjoyed!

  27. Meg @ Meg Runs The World
    April 11, 2016

    I don’t think I could love this post more. I loved when you said you’re obsessed with the world– ME TOO!

    Traveling has given me the gift of empathy, a trait that has become invaluable in my day job and personal life. Unfortunately, it seems the author of the Thought Catalog post is severely lacking in it… perhaps he should travel more. 😉

  28. Claire
    April 11, 2016

    Haha, it’s so true isn’t it! Yes definitely, I’ve learnt so many valuable skills from travelling that I really don’t think I’d have otherwise. It’s molded me into the person I am today. Travel gets rid of prejudices and breaks down barriers in the world. Ha yes, maybe he should 😉

  29. Nicole
    April 12, 2016

    That article pissed me off so much. Thanks for restoring some balance in the universe! x

  30. Claire
    April 12, 2016

    Haha, me too! Thanks Nicole 🙂

  31. Claire
    April 12, 2016

    Haha, me too! Thanks Nicole 🙂

  32. Alice Teacake
    April 12, 2016

    Awesome article and a message for all those who may worry why they can’t stay in one place for too long. Don’t worry, you’re just loving life and self exploration. Here’s to many more friends and languages learnt!
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  33. Claire
    April 12, 2016

    Thanks Alice, yes I definitely am – I want to have friends all over the globe! 🙂

  34. Andreja Jernejčič
    April 12, 2016

    I always claim this worild would be a better place if people would travel more! I have never met a traveller which was a bad person, like NEVER.

  35. Claire
    April 12, 2016

    I definitely agree – travel balances the world!

  36. Shantel Collins
    June 6, 2016

    Travel leads to happiness and let’s not forget all the adventure. I plan on do a lot more travel starting the end of the year myself.
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  37. Claire
    June 8, 2016

    Glad to hear it! Definitely, so much happiness and adventure!

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